5 Things You Shouldn't Give A Sh%t About!

If there is one thing I have learned over the past few years it is that there are some things just not worth your energy. Situations, people and ideals that distract you on the everyday from your bigger picture, from your goals and from living a limitless life.

So in an effort to be a fearless, grown ass women here are some of the little things you shouldn't give a shit about!

1. What people think of you! - It is none of my business what you think of me. We forget that people deal with their own issues everyday, and their opinion of us is based purely on their perception and life experience which is inevitably different from ours. The only opinion of yourself that matters is yours. The only opinion that you can control, is yours. Be your own judge and jury. Life is to short to please everyone. You do you booboo. Wear what you want, be kind, live a fun filled life that you are proud of, be compassionate and treat those as you wish to be treated and you wont go far wrong.

2. The Perfect Body! - I get it, we all want to be as healthy as we can be, but when it comes to worrying about how other people see your body, or if the patch of cellulite on your thigh is unsightly there really are bigger things to worry about! Our differences are to be celebrated! We are all unique and none of us are perfect, that is part of why we are so special. Focus on the bits you love, and learn to accept the bits you don't.

3. The One That Got Away! - Stop stalking profiles of Ex-Boyfriends and their new piece of ass. Things happen for a reason. This is your opportunity to move on, to move up and to slay your day. Pouring over old texts, IG pics and Facebook posts that give you the burning sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach serves nobody! Wish them well and trade the fuck up! While you are looking backwards how are you going to move forwards.

4. Negativity!- Its contagious. Block it out, cut it out and reinforce the positive. We all have that one person in our lives that saps the energy out of us and any room they walk into. If someone or something around you makes you feel like you should give up or second guess yourself, if they feed or sound like the negative self chat in your head, walk away! You have been gifted a limited amount of time on this planet, don't waste it living in fear and negativity.

5. Excuses! - We have taught ourselves to place blame or lay excuses at the feet of our shortcomings. We have some warped belief that these excuses are the things that keep up safe and unaccountable. "I didn't have the best start in life, that's why I am never going to be a millionaire!" "I'm just too much! That's why I will never find the one!" These are called limiting beliefs. They are basically really good excuses that we develop overtime to let ourselves off the hook. If you didn't give a shit about the past or your limited belief what could you achieve? Let it go!

My darling, today is going to be amazing! Don't waste your energy on the drama, noise and negatives! Stay Fabulous!